A personal framework for eating well, staying disciplined, and fueling the body.
My dietary choices are heavily inspired by Harvardβs Healthy Eating Plate. Here is how I categorize what I eat versus what I avoid:
| Category | β Embrace (Yes) | β Avoid (No) |
|---|---|---|
| Beverages | Water | Soda, juice, coffee, milk, tea |
| Grains & Carbs | Whole grains | White bread, white pasta, white rice, candy |
| Proteins | Fish, chicken, eggs, nuts | Red meat, processed meat, cheese |
| Produce | Vegetables, fruits | Potatoes |
| Fats & Oils | Olive oil | Trans fats, butter |
Sticking to a strict diet requires mental models to overcome natural hurdles. Here is how I handle them:
Strategy: Substitution and Satiation
When I crave unhealthy food, my rule is simple: I keep eating healthy food until I am no longer hungry. For example, if I am craving chocolate, I will eat multiple oranges instead until the physical hunger is completely gone, which usually takes the craving down with it.
Strategy: Mental Resolve
I’ve found that nighttime hunger is often fueled by indecision. In the past, if I was undecided about having a late-night snack, I would think about food constantly and feel hungrier.
Now, I have made a firm, non-negotiable decision that I will not eat after a certain time, no matter how I feel. Because the decision is already made, the mental debate stops, and I rarely actually feel hungry at night anymore.
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Updated on 2026 Oct 11.
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